Friend with no Benefit
Hello old friend.
Why come you so quickly back?
Attacked, I retract
the boldness with which
I mistook you for gone.
I’ve only buried you.
But you kept digging,
gnawing, struggling,
and now you’re back.
Aback I am taken,
for having been mistaken
that my lack of security
might interact with
the fact of my absurdity.
You’ve churned in me
ever since I thought you were gone.
But your power has only grown.
Now, though I know you
I’ve forgotten: foggy dreams
seem to obscure my memories
of how I buried you before.
I closed the door
but didn’t lock it.
And now, you’re standing here before
me. You drip the wet of your mess on my floor.
I’m sure I can resist but I’m tired.
I’ve tried to realize the mess you make.
You take and take and take.
But now that I see you, I mistake you for a friend.
And down our path we wend again.
And in the end, I’ll remember
what I got rid of you for.
But it won’t be before
I’m on my knees,
wiping up the mess you made on my floor
once more.
The Lie(f)
If honesty is freedom
we’re all in lockdown.
Brought low by our boldness
to speak we seek to be
understood but in our waking
to humanity’s sin all around,
we’ve found our neighbors
too guilty not to live in fear.
Seared into our minds
the confessions of wayward souls
who seek our forgiveness
but reveal their scars
compel us to hide ours.
What would my hurting neighbor think
to know that I too was on the brink?
How much pain do I dare inflict
on friends until they begin to distrust
the rusty joints that make up
my tree of life?
In strife can we still enter in
to fellowship one with another
when I’m aware my neighbor
is sleeping with an other?
And if they begin to understand
the evil that lies within
will they still call me friend?
Will they clutch their pearls tightly
as I walk by, unsightly me?
No, my fear is too great,
the cost of this freedom too high.
I will live rightly and abide in my lies
deprived of this freedom
prescribed by one who does not know
the cries inside the souls of my eyes.
Do not Trudge
Oh my friend
what gifts I could give
if you would but live
in the shelter of my wisdom.
I too was a kid.
I get it. I know.
All the things you are feeling:
they’ve blown through my heart also.
If I could somehow let you know all that I know
without subjecting you to the sorrow that made me grow
you know I would.
If I could, I would have stood in the way
and taken that pain again.
I know how. But you my soft and naïve friend,
how could you possibly know
the depths into which you will descend?
Why invite it?
Why not let me help?
The sweltering, searing, pain
pressing out on your skull:
the ants in your veins,
I know you just need to break away
but I don’t want to let you go.
We don’t all make it, you know.
This journey consumes some, maybe most
and as I roast my emotional brain
on the spit of your ego
I don’t know how I’ll handle your pain.
May you quickly be reined in
with compassion and enter in
to the recovery that comes
in humble reflection
and finally shed the need
for your complexion so hollow.
And follow instead the path
where wrath and anger and hurt
cannot tread. Where negative emotion is dead
and where, instead,
you rejoin those who love you:
those who will be your drug instead.